tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post7924139463361113578..comments2023-11-02T04:23:07.841-04:00Comments on Diary Of A Mad Black Down Low Man: The Man, Who Doesn't Understand Men!TheBlogArtistFormerlyKnownAsYBandDLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12204959178359041845noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-4187191355661913442009-06-13T16:55:25.098-04:002009-06-13T16:55:25.098-04:00I am not a fan of T.D. Jakes, but he once said &qu...I am not a fan of T.D. Jakes, but he once said "learn the blessings of good-bye." Take your blessing and move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-87002936236672017772009-06-10T15:25:11.811-04:002009-06-10T15:25:11.811-04:00I think the comment before me said it best and I a...I think the comment before me said it best and I agree, "let it go" - we'll never understand why it is that people do what they do and it's just a waste of time to expect people to conform to your expectations ... I wouldn't even waste a post on a dude like that ...K.C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13471821118925569845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-84407853237167938492009-06-09T12:10:34.700-04:002009-06-09T12:10:34.700-04:00I Say Just Let It Go.... He Obviously Really Aint ...I Say Just Let It Go.... He Obviously Really Aint worth your time anyway if he's already doing this.....PRIMOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00273929516440220003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-48942300682998773092009-06-09T01:33:08.373-04:002009-06-09T01:33:08.373-04:00I hope that you have a good pair of running shoes ...I hope that you have a good pair of running shoes because you need to run as fast as you can from this man, and the sitaution associated with Mister.<br /><br />I agree it is quite difficult at times trying to understand men STR8 or gay.Chethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03883472492247470269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-35800804557191787822009-06-07T10:54:53.478-04:002009-06-07T10:54:53.478-04:00Without reading what every one else said...
You n...Without reading what every one else said...<br /><br />You need to walk away. You already know that when Dude is done with you that's how he acts. He is not going to change that just because you want an answer.<br /><br />From my view it looks like he is done with what you guys had right now. You have to find a way to deal with that without having the answer to why it's over.Ladynayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13767090012719390044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-62698356352416701992009-06-06T08:19:28.875-04:002009-06-06T08:19:28.875-04:00YB im not saying your dude is flaming, that was ju...YB im not saying your dude is flaming, that was just a general comment. but i still believe that some men - ppl - to be fair have some very nasty and undesirable traits and for no other reason than to make themselves feel important. because im sure he's one these ppl who be telling his friends man this ''person'' keeps calling me and wont stop. they dont seem to get the message making himself look so desirable in their eyes when he's really being an immature ass.<br /><br />we all age; we all dont grow up or mature. and i think when a person lacks common decency or basic manners that speaks volumes of them. such a blatant disregard for others shows an incredible amount of selfishness and lack or respect. you dont need to know why he's an immature ass the answer wont make you a better person. it's not that serious. the sad thing is we have to encounter 98 ppl who waste our time before we find 2 who are worthy. and you are feeling like a bug-a-boo because you have let him turn you into one. if you call someone and they dont respond leave 1 message on different days just to be certain but never bring your life to a halt to ponder why someone chooses to ignore you. life is too short to worry about ppl who are not worth your time. chalk it up as an experience and keep it rolling. ppl say lots of things often times things they dont mean but just do because its the ''right'' thing to say; its easy and cheap to say something but until i see actions supporting your talki view your words as verbal diarrhoea. they are very few ppl whose words are worth anything today. having said all that he did say his M.O and even though we all like to believe we are so special we arent and when someone does something they promised dont be shocked it happened to you. accept it and move on!<br /> i am curious to know what he said about the other ppl he did this to before and what was his reasoning for do it. was it something serious or something trivial because if it was because he did not find them sexually interesting anymore then that speaks volume of him because contrary to popular belief there is more to life than sex and we wont be able to get it up forever.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-82225098057329648342009-06-05T22:23:34.584-04:002009-06-05T22:23:34.584-04:00I find men are so hung up on what is a man and wha...I find men are so hung up on what is a man and what is a woman and roles etc. Humans are humans and roles clash, all sexes have some bad habits and I think you are wasting your time on a non issue. People do incomprehensible things men and women alike. If he is not a good enough human-being to tell you he no longer has an interest in you then cool. Recoup what is left of your dignity and move on... I am sure there are many other persons worthy of your time and efforts. <br /><br />As for your friend in high school she would have given me the silent treatment twice. First time would have been a test the second would have been the verification. There are so many good genuine people in this world. Look for them and forget the losers. You would find that it would make your life a whole lot simpler.<br /><br />It is commendable that you are trying to figure him out, probably with the intention to make sure it never happens again but while you spend time finding out about the bad the good could be passing you by.Mordanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05625628357547956783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-17276579463719105322009-06-05T00:10:24.582-04:002009-06-05T00:10:24.582-04:00It always gets me how you got all these DL, so-cal...It always gets me how you got all these DL, so-called masculine men running around, but they don't even have the balls to tell a nigga that they're not interested! Ignoring your calls is straight bitchassness on his part.<br /><br />I've been in your situation before and it's best to just move on and forget about that nigga. He's not worth the worry. If he's the kind of guy I think he is, he'll probably hit you up randomly in about a year or so.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-82508669700011953642009-06-04T18:00:15.848-04:002009-06-04T18:00:15.848-04:00I have to agree with southern gal when a person sh...I have to agree with southern gal when a person shows you who they are believe it. in this case, he actually told you. I understand the anger over not knowing but get over it and move on, because if you don't , then he has won.blknsmthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15331617876553151087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-56490345525232844192009-06-04T16:48:43.753-04:002009-06-04T16:48:43.753-04:00Ok so you just want to know why he's ignoring ...Ok so you just want to know why he's ignoring you. Why? What will you gain by him telling you why? <br /><br />I do agree that ignoring someone and thinking they will get the picture is a bunch of bull and the easy way out but it seems that's his motto.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-50915422603326736752009-06-04T16:23:59.276-04:002009-06-04T16:23:59.276-04:00here's the issue I'm having, ya'll thi...here's the issue I'm having, ya'll think I am struggling in him not wanting me around and me not getting the point! My point was why can't he be man enough to say it! That whole ignore you so you get the picture is the pussy way out...tell me what's up and tell what the deal about it. Be a God damn man about your sh**. That's all,I'm not stressing about loosing him, he wasn't really mine to begin with, but that's a whole other subject. I just think he needs to respect me and not play me like that. <br /><br />Scorpion- We have had that struggle when it comes to the two of us. I feel like I;m always but into that female role. I let him know at first. I'm a guy I can handle my own.<br /><br />Corey-It not about letting him go...its about, finding out what's up with the ignoring not speaking routine. We were never a couple, we messed around thats all, I just think after all the time, I was deserved a respectful response.<br /><br />South- I'm not going to lie, your whole, he just not into comment stung, but I'm cool with him not being into me anymore...Hey I have been there many of times, but I tell you "Look nigga don't expect anymore calls from me, aiight!?"<br /><br />Off course you would say that, because you pull that I'm not speaking or answering your text stuff!<br /><br />Inundated- Here's the thing he is not the flamming kind, he without a doubt a DL nigga, with the I['m not about games game, and I guess I got played like ole boy.<br /><br />Do you know I bought a book call People Whisper or something like that, like last year, but never read it, maybe I need to now!TheBlogArtistFormerlyKnownAsYBandDLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12204959178359041845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-90867603697424754062009-06-04T13:00:21.879-04:002009-06-04T13:00:21.879-04:00well everything except the chris brown thing! lol!...well everything except the chris brown thing! lol! but thats a non-issue!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-35737989346698742192009-06-04T12:50:52.382-04:002009-06-04T12:50:52.382-04:00im with thoughts on a southern gal on this one. me...im with thoughts on a southern gal on this one. men are worst than women and the ''flaming ones'' are the worst because they seem to adopt all the worst qualities of women and then magnify them 10000 times. it really is ridiculous. but as southern gal says he told you the info before and now he's acting it out. if he wants to contact you he will he knows how to reach you. dont be 'running down' anyone. if he doesnt want to waste his time on you dont waste your time on him.<br /><br />i too do not get men/women or ppl in general. to hell with the dog whisperer i need a ppl whisperer.<br /><br />the reason why i continue and wait patiently for your short stories is because you just seem to go through and have all the same experiences i do and have all the same thoughts and feelings.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-67867753406171794692009-06-04T10:38:23.392-04:002009-06-04T10:38:23.392-04:00When someone tells you who they are..believe them!...When someone tells you who they are..believe them!<br /><br />He told you about him not being interested in ole boy and how he wouldn't answer the phone when he called. Now he's doing the same to you. He's just not that into you. And that's ok! Seems like he's the type who isn't straight up. <br /><br />I've always said men act just like bitches! lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-79257329892163523962009-06-04T00:06:26.974-04:002009-06-04T00:06:26.974-04:00Of course you are going to let this guy, go right?...Of course you are going to let this guy, go right? Right? The thing that is most interesting in your social observation is that most women are just as level headed as you are, but men, like this DL LOSER, makes them act out of character in the same way you are acting out of character now. Don’t sweat this lesson. Learn and move forward, baby boy…Corey Keithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11294281339954281515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-70173867198249845722009-06-03T22:03:58.766-04:002009-06-03T22:03:58.766-04:00If you're like me, you'll come to have a l...If you're like me, you'll come to have a love/hate relationship with men in general. I personally prefer the strong female mind. Men have too many hangups. I always get shut down when I say this, but I believe it still to be true: men are the more sensitive sex. <br /><br />It's funny, you can have two masculine dudes together and one is still gonna end up in the more "masculine" role and the other the more "feminine" role. It's just nature. At any given point, one has to be more "dominant" than the other. In man-man relationships, especially when both are hopelessly masculine, this turns into a sort of subtle struggle, which can lead to problems when either side doesn't learn that there can be power in relenting...sometimes.<br /><br />But, getting back to the point, my advice is that he's giving you all the signs you need for you to proceed. The question is, will you heed... And you shouldn't have to fight just for someone to want you around. I just got through dealing with this issue myself, lol.lchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10756947970292986542noreply@blogger.com