tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post3723335747781548543..comments2023-11-02T04:23:07.841-04:00Comments on Diary Of A Mad Black Down Low Man: Not quite feeling so free, on my Independence WeekendTheBlogArtistFormerlyKnownAsYBandDLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12204959178359041845noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-82065792226661035112008-07-14T11:16:00.000-04:002008-07-14T11:16:00.000-04:00Where are you?Where are you?Jazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01186973972482369982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-66660643143034553862008-07-14T10:55:00.000-04:002008-07-14T10:55:00.000-04:00"Shut Up"? Oh Hell Naw... She must be going thro..."Shut Up"? Oh Hell Naw... She must be going through something. Hope it all works out, and old Mary J always helps me through some hard shit too!Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09318333889576363936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-75609841655676857142008-07-12T12:36:00.000-04:002008-07-12T12:36:00.000-04:00I guess everything I could say has been said by Da...I guess everything I could say has been said by Darius... I do know how you feel... When my younger sister started bringing her boyfriend around I was awful to him and I realize it was out of love and a need to protect her. When she married him, I was still not won over, and now, two neices and a nephew later (and yes, at 26, those tubes are tied), I am still not a fan... Oh well... Stay up cutie...Corey Keithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11294281339954281515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-69375649219915116702008-07-11T14:02:00.000-04:002008-07-11T14:02:00.000-04:00Yea I don't do the "shut up" shit! You definitely...Yea I don't do the "shut up" shit! You definitely must have a sit down with your cousin tho to see what she's going thru. If she had a problem with anything you had said or were saying to her fiancé, then she should have pulled you aside and said so, period. Take ya time, enhance your calm and have a lil talk.<BR/><BR/>~Damnit!bLaQ~n~MiLDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875175151911527789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-17513518044779763912008-07-10T18:20:00.000-04:002008-07-10T18:20:00.000-04:00I understand this situation from your point of vie...I understand this situation from your point of view as well as the fiancee's point of view. <BR/><BR/>From his point of view although everyone says it cool to do this or cool to do that you never just want to overstep your bounds. Even though the family has met him before he is still a bit cautious trust me man i've been there. Be nice to him even though your cousin is being a BRAT.<BR/> As for you I think you did the right thing. You addressed your cousin telling u to shut up. You also left the situation without blowing it up making it a big family fight or argument. I do think you should talk more to your cousin though and really explain to her how you feel. I went through something similar with my brother last year.<BR/><BR/>Great Post man you kept me hanging on every word. First time comming through and i'm already hooked.4GOTTEN1https://www.blogger.com/profile/06995086292486700473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-61731954014285570652008-07-09T20:52:00.000-04:002008-07-09T20:52:00.000-04:00Your cuz sounds like my older cousin. She loves m...Your cuz sounds like my older cousin. She loves me...but she's a HATER!!<BR/><BR/>It sounds like your cousin wants you all to accept the fiancee, but she doesn't want you to get along too well with him. Shyt...sounds like she doesn't even want you to speak to him unless it's brief and she's included in the conversation. Weird.<BR/><BR/>Stop going out of your way for unappreciative people. It's funny how they appreciate your thoughtfulness when you stop being thoughtful though...so I bet she's going to call you.<BR/><BR/>How old is she by the way...telling you to shut up just seems so immature.Jazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01186973972482369982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-45939486677489360142008-07-09T19:02:00.000-04:002008-07-09T19:02:00.000-04:00Where do I start? You had better take some time fo...Where do I start? You had better take some time for yourself and sort out your thoughts because you are experiencing some serious famil, friend issues and of no fault of your own.<BR/><BR/>Pleased to hear that the 4th was good holiday until you realized that you had gone all out for folks that appeared to be ungrateful, just think you had been everywhere looking for beef ribs and all you could find was pork trust when it is a free meal kin folks eat anything.<BR/><BR/>Don't allow things to weigh so heavy on your heart, you good people and that is why cuzin beau(s) are always after you. I agree with Darious there must have been a break down in communication.Chethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03883472492247470269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-42242932141164523052008-07-08T22:19:00.000-04:002008-07-08T22:19:00.000-04:00as has been said, it seems like a lot of misunders...as has been said, it seems like a lot of misunderstandings and nervousness going on. now, she shouldn't have told you to shut up. but, it can be hard to mesh family with the new significant other. i hope you all are able to work things out.blkbutterflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02938145312798108811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-33858163137038325312008-07-08T11:56:00.000-04:002008-07-08T11:56:00.000-04:00I have to agree with Darius. I don't take too kind...I have to agree with Darius. <BR/><BR/>I don't take too kindly when someone tells me to shut up. There would have been some furniture moving.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200584084007706399.post-79742457272875155292008-07-08T08:48:00.000-04:002008-07-08T08:48:00.000-04:00Sooo - I'm going to be honest here. You're like a ...Sooo - I'm going to be honest here. You're like a blogger brother of mine from another mother, so you can take it.<BR/><BR/>What good is posting all this here and not saying a word to Tia going to do? Obviously there was a breakdown between communication and expectation in some form. You acted one way, she expected something different. Unless you have a conversation with her to really understand what's going on - you'll never have anything resolved. And you'll harbor ill feelings toward her on something that could probably be dubbed a misunderstanding. Just a little food for thought - thas all.Darius T. Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06225878800405121386noreply@blogger.com